Have you ever wondered whether somebody you just met loves you or hates you? Have you noticed that some people are naturally kind and exude good vibes, while others give you the side eye straight away? When that happens, it is usually very easy to tell if the person likes you or wants you gone, but it often happens that things are not so obvious.
Fortunately, there are some small details that usually give people’s thoughts away, even if they are trying really hard to conceal how they really feel about you: all you have to do is to pay attention to these signs and to read them correctly. Here are some of the most notable signs that can help you figure out if people love you or hate you:
1. Pay Attention To The Tone Of Their Voice
You will be amazed to see that you can tell a lot more about a person (and about the way they feel towards you) by simply paying attention to the tone of their voice, than to the things they are actually saying. This does not mean that you have to ignore what they are saying – it just means that you need to focus on the “whole package”.
A person’s voice tone can make or break them, and it can easily give away their hidden intentions. The tone of somebody’s voice can be a very good indicator of somebody’s feelings, and while it would be very easy for people to lie to one another, it is a lot more difficult to conceal their true intentions in the tone of their voices. For instance, you can easily tell if somebody hates you or if they feel bored, if they use a flat tone. On the other hand, vocal inflections (as opposed to speaking in monotone) have the opposite effect, and it means that the other one is really keep on the conversation.