3. You Are Always The One People Come To For The Latest Gossip
If your friends or mere acquaintances come to you to find out the latest gossip, then the chances are that you are considered to be the “smack talker” of the group – and that is not exactly a compliment. Everybody tends to gossip every now and then, and most of the time it is actually harmless. However, when you focus exclusively on other people’s flaws and you try to bring them down just to make yourself feel a bit better, then the chances are that those around you see you as incredibly annoying, or even mean. A secure person whose self-esteem and self-confidence is intact would never feel the need to bring other people down or to emphasize on their flaws.
4. You Are Always Late And Unreliable
If you have been told that you are late and unreliable more than once, then not only do you lack punctuality, but you also lack decency and seriousness, which is certainly very annoying. Everybody can be a bit late every now and then, but if you are never there on time and you have made a habit out of being late (be it to school, work or in your personal life), then there is only that much your friends can handle. Unreliable people can be very irritating!
5. You Are Constantly Competing
Being in a constant competition with your friends or your significant other is not only very annoying, but it is also an absolutely exhausting personality trait that people do not like to put up with. If other people told you before that you are in a constant competition with people, then this actually shows just how insecure you are, and it reflects negatively on you. Direct competitors are unconsciously seeking attention and validation, which can be particularly annoying for those who are more “spiritually and culturally evolved” than you.