Many famous experts say dreams are a reflection of the unconscious mind. But there are some dreams conspired by the universe to bring to your attention to some aspects of your life that everyone including you knows but could not point the finger at it. Relationship dreams are regular and seeing exes are also typical, it is the content and nature that matters and gives the vision a meaning. Every custom, expert, or visionary have their interpretation or symbolism of a particular thing when it comes to dreams. It is, however, up to you to decide which ones relate or is relevant in your case.
An ex-boyfriend could be from a long time ago or a recent one. It is all in the dream and who you see doing what or saying what is the question and to finding the interpretation.
Dreaming of a past lover and falling in love again
Experts say that such dreams occur due to two reasons either you are in a lifeless relationship at present, or you are single and missing the times when you were in such kind of loving relationship. Whether it was first love or a connection that broke off 10-20 years back if the particular relationship brought about the feelings of trust, fun, loving, and understanding in you it is sure to affect your present situation. It means that the mind records every emotion you feel in a particular time and later replay it when the nostalgia comes up. It is like associating a specific song to a phase in your life and every time you hear the song you are reminded of the particular period you went through. So if you are single and lonely or in a relationship that is boring or lifeless dreaming about your ex or falling in love with your ex could indicate the past love you had and how it made you feel at that time.
Dreaming of your recent ex who wants you back or apologizing to you
Such dreams experts say is the opposite of what things look like in reality. It represents your state of mind and your unwillingness to move on. Your subconscious mind is still hung up on your ex, and even though you may not admit it in reality at the back of your mind, you always wish and hope to hear such things from them which is playing out in your dream.
Dreaming of your recent ex who is refusing you
Such dreams are healthy and helpful. It is your mind trying to make you understand the reality of your situation. In most break-up scenarios one out of the two is still in love and cannot let go. During such times dreaming about an ex who is rejecting you is a way of conveying a message to yourself that you need to let go and move on.
Dreaming about getting into a fight with your first love
Generating self-love is difficult, and many people suffer from understanding the connection. Your first love in your dream represents yourself, and by fighting or refraining, you are not loving yourself enough and understanding your needs which is crucial in the journey of life.