A great personality will always compliment your character. The way that people in civilised society perceive one another is not fame or money as many people in today’s generation think. It’s rather the most opposite thing that has got no relation with either money or fame; it’s a person’s character and the set of personality trait that one possess. No amount of popularity or money can buy you “good character,” it’s something that is developed within a person out of humility and most importantly out of love.
A great person once said, “some people are so poor, all they have is money.” That perfectly defines our present scenario where money and fame are given as priority over good personality. You can accept people and choose to respect them depending on their bank balance, but in the end, it always comes down to his/her character. With money, maybe the respect will last for a month or a year or even more, but it’s never permanent. After all, we are all but Humans, and at the end of the day, the only thing that matters is how beautiful of a person you are.
Our personality is something that is developed naturally, and it is almost impossible to force someone to change their personality. However, any logical person will always learn the positive benefits of possessing a melancholic personality and develop them eventually. It is something that is nurtured from a young age so that they can develop all that positive attributes naturally.
The most important aspect of acquiring a melancholic personality is the fact that it gives a great sense of satisfaction as a human being and ultimately results in a happy life. Here are some examples of how you can develop a great character with a desirable and humble personality.
This is something that is quickly becoming an alienated word. People are just too busy in their own world and working too hard trying to be successful. There is literally no time for others, let alone think about how they can help other people. The world is rapidly becoming a shallow place. Social media gave us a platform to make our world a smaller place by connecting all different people and bringing them closer, but in the same time, it has separated those people who are closer to each other. Ironic isn’t it? We don’t have a second to spare to sit down with our loved ones or a stranger and ask them what their problems are. We are earning in terms of thousands, but we feel too reluctant to help out someone who needs some few bucks to meet their needs. A good character will always involve selflessness because it comes from a place where you keep others before yourself.
- Having the right values
A person without the right values can never develop a good character. People are just too confused about their respective lives to truly understand what they want. People just go about their daily activities because that’s what everybody seems to be doing. There isn’t such thing as humility in the present scenario and everything that is remotely related to fame or money takes the top priority. Anything that doesn’t involve “profit” or fame is alienated.
Having the right values will allow you to behave well, irrespective of whether that allows you to gain profit or not. The right values will always teach you to be a good person over all the other aspects of your life. In short, inculcating the right values forces you to do the right thing ever time, irrespective of whether that produce a profitable outcome or not.
- Surround yourself with good people
Our environment plays a key role in developing and shaping our characters. People may say that it doesn’t matter and that it all depends on an individual, but in reality, we are all a manipulative being. You can try as much as possible, but in the end, a bad company will most likely result in bad behaviours or bad characters. If people keep doing the wrong thing around you every time, it becomes a daily routine, and you somehow develop the mentality that all those bad actions are normal. Surrounding yourself with good company will produce the exact opposite result. When people around you do the right thing, it encourages you to do the same.
- Learn to be Humble
Being a Humble person is probably one of those things that are misinterpreted widely. In the modern era, being Humble is most commonly associated with being weak, but the fact is, it takes an enormous amount of guts and heart to be humble especially in today’s society. Being humble requires you to lock away all your egos and selfishness in order to help others. Things like this may sound like a cliché and boring to be precise, but that’s just the harsh reality that is prevalent today. Anything that requires you keep others before yourself sounds absurd and stupid, but that shouldn’t stop you from helping others and refraining yourself from the constant need to make everything about yourself.
- Avoid drama
The amount of drama in the present age of the internet is beyond the wildest imagination of any sane person. Just a simple “Hi” can cook up a drama and that snowballs into something too big to deal with. The fact is that the World is filled with too many people trying to gain their own attention that it has become nearly impossible to say something and not offend anyone around you. Everyone seems to be offended by one thing or the other. Isolate yourself from such people even if they are your best friends. A good character and drama can never coexist.
- Clear your self-conscious
Your self-conscious will always allow you to make the right decision. Even the coldest of heart knows when they are doing something wrong, and that’s all because of our self-consciousness. If you want to develop a good character, it is vital to clear your self- consciousness, and that will always enable you to make the right decision.